23 February 2018

Notes - the reason, the reality


         Mid-afternoon. You are sitting near Kroger's on Mason-Montgomery Road waiting for Carol. Kim and the boys are to arrive about five o'clock then go to supper. Yesterday afternoon you drove to Kim and Paul's to stay for the night because you had a meeting about the shower glass door and wall in the master bath. You were there this morning at ten after stop at Schneider's for an irregular breakfast of donuts and milk on the way to Swain's [bath and accessories] a few miles south of OSU. When you stopped by the house this morning they had put the 'cover' on the entire roof and are working with the actual roofing today. You will be up next Monday for a meeting with Jim A. your foreman/manager at the house. Kim needs someone to watch Brennan Tuesday until three as she has a five hour phone/video conference that day. Once the roof is up, the 'siding' and stone go up, then the windows and doors, at least that is how you remember it from watching other construction at the site. Seven or eight houses are now being constructed at this time, up three from a week ago. You are surprised how fast the small area of about forty-two lots is filling up. - Amorella

         1557 hours. I think there are only about five to seven empty lots after today's observation. I know it is going to be somewhat noisier with I-71 about two hundred feet away and down about fifty feet below our location. However, another house being built about the same distance away further west is fine with the house almost finished. The walls, doors and windows, do a good job blocking out the traffic. Otherwise, if you sit on the porch and in the backyard you are going to hear some of it; the noise would be worse if we weren't fifty or so feet above the freeway. And, few kids in the neighborhood as it is designated for fifty-five year olds and older. Ohio does not make this a law, but the community does not allow child's playset and swings, etc. in the backyards.

         The family had supper at the 'Rocky Chair Place' off Fields-Ertel Road. Once home you worked in the basement while the boys watched their Netflix channel. You stopped in time to watch NBC News while Kim was giving the boys their baths then you three watched 'Rachel Maddow' before they retired and you are about to.

         2226 hours. I found another box with written material and notes from way back, some back to the sixties. I saved a little more than an inch high stack from a full file box. Out it went. I couldn't part with some. Too much emotional value. It wasn't all my writings, it was also about people I have known in life. I showed some to Kim and said I cannot do this, and showed her. She suggested I keep it and I said, "Well then, you can throw it out after I'm gone." She agreed that she could but she intimated that she might not. It is hard to give up intimate letters from friends and well wishes from students from long ago. I threw some out and came others. Why? I assume my heart knows. Certainly no one else does.

         Post. - Amorella

         2234 hours. Tomorrow we continue on. It has to be done. Better that Carol and I do it than save it all for Kim and Paul to do. We save a bit now and then for our own pleasure of knowing those words are safely kept. It is an obligation to family and friends and to ourselves. Family stuff is only important to some family. That's the way it always is. I would never give up Grandma Orndorff's 1916 high school yearbook or my parents' 1936 high school yearbook. It would be against my nature to do so.

         Your last sentence shows the reason, the reality . . . it would be against your nature. This is a more important comment than you are willing to admit. - Amorella

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