10 February 2018

Notes - clarity on friendship



        Orndorff, last night you posted that "Friendship may be a stronger bond than love". How do you feel about that comment tonight? - Amorella

         2235 hours. Changing the statement slightly: "Friendship is a stronger human bond than love", is more in line with my deeper thinking on the subject. Love has many more associative meanings.

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friendship - noun - the emotions or conduct of friends; the state of being friends.  a relationship between friends: she formed close friendships with women.  a state of mutual trust and support between allied nations.

 ORIGIN Old English frēondscipe

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love - noun - 1 an intense feeling of deep affection: babies fill parents with intense feelings of love | their love for their country• a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone: they were both in love with her | we were slowly falling in love | it was love at first sight• affectionate greetings conveyed to someone on one's behalf. • a formula for ending an affectionate letter: take care, lots of love, Judy• (Love) a personified figure of love, often represented as Cupid.

ORIGIN Old English lufu, of Germanic origin; from an Indo-European root shared by Sanskrit lubhyati desires, Latin libet it is pleasing, libido desire

Both words selected and edited from the Oxford/American software

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         2248 hours. The difference as seen above is that love has the association of romance and/or sexual attraction added to it. Romance and sex muddies the waters for me therefore friendship shows a the stronger deeper human bond. Now, if two lovers are also best friends first, then to me a bond is equal to the bond of human friendship but not greater in terms of depth into the human spirit, the heartansoulanmind of the matter.

         That clarifies your mind. - Amorella

         2255 hours. Yes, it does.

         Post. - Amorella

         2256 hours. Thank you, Amorella for helping me to do so.


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